puzzled

does social acceptance of a relationship matter?

let's say there is an age gap which is maybe above average, or you're of two different religious backgrounds, or perhaps your dads are mortal enemies; how does this reflect on relationships?

is it us above the world? is it family first? i'm not sure how this works; as far as i'm concerned, most folks date within their "acceptable" social norms. do you think love concurs all? what if there is love that no one else sees?

i have been on the other side, meaning on the outside of someone else's relationship looking in and not seeing what they may see. love is said to be blind but i always would joke about certain couples (close family/friends) that love has to be blind, deaf, and dumb. now that it's my turn to fall in love, i can see how people may fall in love without knowing what is ahead of them. i'm guessing it's a scary road for everyone.

i still don't know how to curb these social norms and ideals. it's difficult enough to picture your life with someone but to have others watch how you do it makes it so much harder.

life is a puzzle.

brrrrr

i wonder what has made me such a cold, cold, bitch?
maybe it's all the assholes? maybe all the deceit? maybe the lies? the cheaters? the backstabbers? i wonder what has really made me this cold person.

i can be as warm as fresh baked apple pie, or as cold as the north pole.
i act the way you make me act towards you. so technically, you decide.